Sure, we can picture them. Old ladies neatly dressed, with pearl necklaces, drinking coffee from delicate cups and eating different sorts of biscuits. It’s a well established picture of elderly women – and also a safe and harmless image of the older woman. This conventional truth includes that older women’s primary interests and topics of conversation are baking, grandchildren and needlework. But has anyone ever asked what they are really talking about, while they are having their coffee?